Tuesday, 28 April 2009

  • Two years ago...

    Two years ago Mike and I hopped on a plane bound for Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam.  ~18 hours later, we became the parents of a petite and precious nine month old baby girl with a snotty nose, peach-fuzzy head, curious hands, and an electrifying giggle.  It took us the whole first day to figure out how to get her to drink her formula (scalding hot, if you please!), but it took only moments to fall in love with her and feel like she was ours.  Tiana is a blessing beyond words and way beyond what we deserve.  Our lives have been turned upside down (in a good way) by this little girl with a wacky sense of humor, a love of all things girly, and a sweet and tender heart that loves so fiercely.

    The day we met Tiana in the orphanage 2 years ago

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    People often ask us "Is adopting abroad expensive?"  It's hard to know how to answer that question.  The answer is yes, it is very expensive.  $26,000 is not a small sum.  But it is the ransom price of an orphan, the cost of freedom and a family for a child who otherwise has little earthly hope.  So it's $26,000 to buy a life and a future for one child, and if you phrase it like that, it really isn't expensive at all.  It really is a small price to pay -- and we would do it all over again in a heartbeat. 

    To celebrate the anniversary of Tiana's adoption into our family, we dressed up in traditional Vietnamese finery and went to Little Saigon to eat Vietnamese food with Ba and Grandpa

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    Here's T demonstrating her peasant grip -- just like how I use chopsticks!  ... better, actually.

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    Apparently, our family was quite the spectacle... most of the other patrons in the restaurant gawked at us the ENTIRE time!  Vietnamese people are NOT subtle and they don't smile back when you accidentally make eye contact.  Was it the traditional garb?  The freakishly tall one who looks more Chinese than Vietnamese? The Caucasian husband?  The Ethiopian baby?  The sum of the above?  We found it pretty humorous even if we were a bit self conscious.

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    This is my current favorite picture of T.  Some friends of my parents gave her this elephant statue because they think she has a good memory like an elephant. 

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    Our dear Tiana, we hope that you will always *remember* and marvel at God's grace in your life.  You were once an orphan, but now you belong to a family - albeit imperfect- who loves you so much.  May your life story always point you to Christ who has paid your ransom with His life, reconciling you to the One who made you, and purchasing your adoption into His family, . 

Comments (12)

  • mymeanderings

    I found your site when I did a search on Xanga and am so happy! My husband and I are in the process of adopting a little girl from Ethiopia and are at the stage where we are eager to read and learn every thing we can about adoption! 


    Your children look happy and blessed!

  • AmieD

    So sweet, Sonia...thank you for sharing!  We are so blessed to be there for T's adoption into your family.  God is indeed so good!

  • Spark77

    Awww.... T you are a blessed girl and wow, I still vividly remember your mommy going into the LAX security area to get on the plane with YOUR diaper bag hanging on her shoulders to meet you! Love you guys!

  • jton23
    Awesome entry...praise God indeed, so encouraged by His grace through your family.

    PS - Indirect apologies for the awkward staring and (lack of) social skills of the greater Vietnamese public. It is an unexplainable mystery I have yet to comprehend, and likely never will.
  • gjanzen

    We were so sorry not to see you on Sunday at Cornerstone. :(  Thanks for sharing your milestone here, though, so that we can rejoice with you through xanga. :)

  • jjlees

    What a blessing.  I wanted to cry and laugh at the same time reading your entry.  Tiana has grown so much...I remember when you first brought her to flock and everyone wanted to hold her... so precious!

  • livience

    Aww, T sure has grown!!! Praise the Lord for placing her in your family.

  • jianuwine

    Thanks for the testimony!

  • kimbyh

    Wow!  Can't believe it's been 2 years already!  She looks so grown up in your new pictures.  Praise God for all his blessings through your girls!  Weird thing about the staring.

  • sixpackfamily

    What a wonderful blessing to see T grow and blossom into a sweet, precious little girl.  Praise God for your example.

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  • babymegumi

    Wow, those 2 years flew by!  What a blessing to have such a fun, sweet girl for your daughter - praise God!

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